I’ve become a full-time self-care taker since this pandemic peaked. Like I was already determined to heal myself but the maintenance of it fluctuated quite a bit while I juggled my responsibilities. Now that my main source of income has vanished I am in between endings and grand new beginnings. I’ve learned to be okay with resting in this space because In doing so I create more of what I need to forge ahead in divine timing. I wrote this list per-pandemic times but it still fits and I’m happy to see that I’ve been sticking to the guideline of enjoying all that I am presently, as I grow towards all that my soul has come to achieve in this lifetime.
Here is a basic list of things I do to tend to my own garden of health and holistic wellbeing
1. Choose all of who you are exactly how and where you are today.
2. Take the time to understand why you respond and behave the way you do.
3. Accept all of who you are exactly how and where you are now.
4. Express love, gratitude and forgiveness to your outdated way of being.
5. Make improvements to become a better version of who you are now.
6. Acknowledge the need for boundary setting.
7. Set them damn boundaries AND stick to them.
8. Be the most amazing friend to yourself that you always looked for externally.
9. Keep an open heart but protect your energy, however you see fit.
10. Just Do You and trust that shit.
11. Repeat, accordingly.
